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I wanted to provide an update regarding Violence against women and girls, which members around this area have highlighted as an issue of concern on the Met Engage priority survey. Ending violence against women is everyone’s business. Here are many ways you can make a difference, safely and effectively.
- LISTEN TO AND BELIEVE SURVIVORS
Do not say, “Why didn’t she leave?”
Do say: “We hear you. We believe you. We stand with you.”)
- TEACH THE NEXT GENERATION AND LEARN FROM THEM
Talk about consent, bodily autonomy, and accountability in an age-appropriate way to boys and girls. For example, discuss the importance of a clear “yes” from all involved, the fact your body is yours and you make choices over what happens to it, and of how we must always take responsibility for our actions. It is important to also listen to what children have to say about their experience of the world. By empowering young advocates with information and educating them about women’s rights, we can build a better future for all.
- CALL FOR RESPONSES AND SERVICES FIT FOR PURPOSE
Services for survivors are essential services. This means that shelters, helplines, counselling, and all support for survivors of gender-based violence need to be available for those in need.
- UNDERSTAND CONSENT
Freely given clear consent is mandatory, every time.
Rather than listening for a “no”, make sure there is a clear “yes”, from all involved. Adopt clear consent in your life and talk about it.
- LEARN THE SIGNS OF ABUSE AND HOW YOU CAN HELP
There are many forms of abuse and all of them can have serious physical and emotional effects. If you think someone is abusing you, seek for help as soon as possible.
- START CONVERSATION
Violence against women and girls is a human rights violation that’s been perpetuated for decades. It is pervasive, but it is not inevitable, unless we stay silent.
- HOLD EACH OTHER ACCOUNTABLE / YOU ARE NOT ALONE
Violence can take many forms, including sexual harassment in the workplace and in public spaces. Take a standby calling it out when you see it: catcalling, inappropriate sexual comments, and sexist jokes are never okay. Create a safer environment for everyone by challenging your peers to reflect on their own behaviour and speaking up when someone crosses the line, or by enlisting the help of others if you don’t feel safe.
TAKE ACTIONS
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